Why we built this
In the house where I grew up, the past did not know it was supposed to be over.
It arrived at the table of each visit with my grandparents, aunts, uncles and cousins, who carried it in their coat pockets like something they meant to return. My grandfather would sit at the head of the table and listen to his own history told back to him, by the love of his life my grandmother — and he would wink to let me know he was still there.
I live for the feeling of laughing before the punchline because we had heard this story nineteen times and it was never the same story twice. Someone always remembered the part everyone else forgot. Someone else would wait until the very end to upend the whole thing: "Well, you know why we were even in that car, right?"
The past was not behind us at that table. It was breathing, arguing, pouring itself more wine.
Then my uncle found the shoebox — letters sent to my grandfather during the war. A lifeline. His family couldn't be beside him, so they did the only thing they could: they loved him across the distance. Methodically. Faithfully. Never in doubt.
They wrote and they prayed and they poured themselves into envelopes, channeling everything they had across the ocean, willing him home.
He survived. He married my grandmother. And here I am.
I think that's what ancestors are. Not just people who came before us — forces still moving through the universe, still guiding us, still pouring their energy forward through time.
The letters proved it. The love they sent didn't stop when the war ended. It's still traveling. Still reaching.
That's what Cipher is. A way to keep that energy moving — voices and stories channeling forward through time, so the people who loved us before we were born can keep reaching the people who won't be born until we're gone.
I built it so you could have this too. Before the chairs go empty. Before you forget to ask.